In every collective or team must be one or more assholes. This is just the rule and it works in 90 percent of cases. And it’s up to you, how you deal with them. You can fight, you can let it be or you can give up. But it’s hard to tell what is the right choice.

At first you need to recognize the assholes. But it’s quite easy, because their behaviour is still the same. They have also some usual traits.
The first one is narcissism. They always think, they are the most special of all. You can be better, but you can’t fight, because it has no sense. Just let them think, they are the best.

The second comes impatience. If they think, they need something, they need it now. It can’t wait, so if you don’t want to make them angry, give them everything and as soon as possible.
This is also connected with aggressiveness. They can be mad because of almost everything. And you can’t do anything with it. So better get out of their way.
Entitlement is their another trait. If they say, something is theirs, it’s theirs. Because it just is.

Delusion is also common in their cases. They think you talk behind their backs and they could become mad at you for no reason.
It’s harder when the asshole is your boss. In this case you don’t have many options, because you just can’t ignore him and don’t talk to him. So you can withstand it or just give up.

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